Monday, October 15, 2007

Stepping out of the nest.

My oldest is off with his father today to visit a university. I am suddenly struck with the realization that this is our last October with him. We already spent our last September with him. Honestly, most days are just like any other but sometimes I look at him through different eyes and marvel at how time has passed. I make it entirely clear to him that we would fully support and even encourage him to stay at home and go to junior college for a year or more till he is completely sure of his direction in life. Generally this makes for great motivation to get him to write his college essays or do some other college related preparations.

What will he be when he grows up? I haven't a clue. The kid is a blank slate. I think that is why he needs to get out of the house. There is only so much you can learn about yourself under your parent's roof and I think he needs to get out there and "find himself". I refuse to be sad about this. Sometimes I wonder why. Is something wrong with me? Maybe it's because our house is so crowded. More likely it is because I remember the excitement and thrill I had when leaving home. I did it completely wrong. I was way too young, instead of easing my way out I bolted and I was nowhere near ready. But I did it and I figured it out. Mostly. I'm still figuring some things out. It works, though, it's the way God made us. Eventually we all want to leave our parents. So when the time comes I am prepared to shed tears but I will do so in the spirit of celebration.


HeyJules said...

What a great attitude! You go girl!

Shalee said...

If you ever figure completely, would you please pass on your words of wisdom? I could definitely use a good old point in the right direction.

(And I agree with heyjules... your attitude is admirable!)

Ornery's Wife said...

My youngest left this January for the Air Force, leaving my nest empty. I wrote about it here if you want to see.

I never really thought I would be that effected by his leaving home, not that I didn't love having him there, but more that I felt like you that leaving and being a man was what all that raisin' was for! It's been almost ten months, and I am finally starting to figure out what to do with myself. Hope you have a while to adjust before your next one moves on!

Sea Sang In Us said...

Jules, thanks, I'll be leaning on God to maintain the attitude.

Shalee, visit me on my death bed and. Maybe I'll have it all figured out by then.

Ornery's Wife, You must be very, very proud. I'm gonna have to say by the time I get to my youngest all bets are off.

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